My first career was working as a paramedic where I first learned to deeply empathize with others in the most difficult of circumstances. I have been a student of human potential for my entire adult life and desired to study human transformation after a peak experience in 2007 when the “parking brake” that was holding me back in life was released and I caught a powerful glimpse of the psychological potential in everyone.
I have studied everything I could get my hands on as far as eastern and western meditative approaches. After exhausting this search, I realized that psychotherapy has found its footing as a powerful force of change in the new millennium.
Using new neurosciences, attachment theory, trauma approaches, inter-relational approaches, emotional neuroscience, and somatic (body experiential) forms of therapy, psychotherapy is becoming more effective and efficient at deep and lasting change than the older (meditative/spiritual) approaches to change.
I studied many experiential psychotherapies and am currently being mentored by master psychotherapists in a particular school of therapy in the Maryland and D.C. regions.
I work constantly on my own mental health and growth as well, and I never practice interventions with a client that I have not experienced myself.
I provide intensive psychotherapeutic services for children, adolescents, adults, and couples.
My focus is on working with difficult emotional experience and yielding positive emotional experiences and relational experiences.
I work with the goal to go beyond reduction in symptoms to making the way for human flourishing and deeply pro-social existing with others.
I believe that psychotherapy is not simply working with mental disease and pathology, but about transforming to the degree that others can live a life outside of the fight/flight/freeze states of stress, trauma and reactivity to realize who one truly is beyond our past conditioning.
My Specific Approach and What to Expect
I consider my school of psychotherapy to be a gentle experiential way of working towards change. This means that I work in the moment in a deeply mindful manner and I create a space where everything about the other is accepted and validated without any judgement.
With children, my ‘experiential’ approach tends to focus on play, art and other means of non-verbal expression with emphasis on working towards healthy relating to caregivers and how parents can help lessen their child’s negative states and anxieties.
I do not believe change and transformation can begin to happen unless the normal stresses and anxieties of a client’s everyday life are lessened or ceased, so that the psychotherapeutic space can feel good, and comfortable.
I work with almost surgical precision to assess my client’s anxieties and ability to handle the next step or intervention. I never force anything and always ask permission to try new things or explore new areas.
The most I expect from clients and their families is a willingness to explore their edge of change to the degree that this is possible and I will help with the rest.
My work is heavily influenced by:
- Trauma theory
- Attachment Theory
- New frontiers of neuroscience on the human change process
- Positive Psychology-the psychology of human potential
All Humans Have The Same Latent Power
It is not just psychotherapists who have the power to create an open, empathetic and non-judgmental space. Everyone has this power inside them, waiting to be realized.
In states of authentic relating and deep empathy, where two or more people are in emotional coordination without any one sided sympathy, judgement, or needing of something from the other, each person is transformed, as well as their way of relating to others and the world.
My hope and professional direction is to cultivate this power of transforming oneself and others so that we can positively effect the others around us.